Hi, I'm Ashley. I'm 33 years old, a mom to two amazing boys, and a proud stepmom to six incredible kids. Our family also includes two lovable dogs—a female American Bully and a male American Staffordshire Terrier—who keep life entertaining.

I'm part of the BDSM community and identify as a submissive during the day and a switch at night. It took me years to become comfortable embracing my lifestyle and being open about who I am. That journey taught me the importance of acceptance, understanding, and having a safe space where people can be themselves without fear of judgment.

I also live with several chronic health conditions, including fibromyalgia, hypermobile Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (hEDS), severe asthma, autism, severe anxiety, and social anxiety, along with other health challenges. These experiences have shaped who I am and have given me a deep appreciation for kindness, patience, and community. I understand what it's like to feel misunderstood or isolated, which is one of the reasons I created this space.

This website, group, and page were built to be more than just a place to browse—they're a community. Whether you're exploring your identity, looking for support, searching for handcrafted items, or simply wanting a place where you can be yourself, you're welcome here.

I personally create many of the items you'll find available, including journals, collars, and other handcrafted pieces made with care and intention.

Most importantly, I want everyone who visits to know they're welcome exactly as they are. Whether you have questions, need encouragement, or just want someone who understands to listen, my inbox is always open. Please don't hesitate to reach out. You're never alone here.